When are we not in pursuit of happiness, trying to ace the best class result, getting to dance with the girl we had a crush on, giving an amazing presentation in front of our boss, etcetra and etcetra, the list goes on! Nearly 99% of our actions are in pursuit of happiness, most of the times for ourselves and rarely for others.
In both cases, happiness is relative!
Still, there are some basic underlying principles of being happy and how to have a happy life.
1. Learning Happiness
To be happy it is essential to be surrounded be happy things, things that give you joy and make you feel special. You should surround yourself with activities and people that bring a smile on your face. You should cut down and negate on people and those things that hurt you or upset you in any form.
2. Set Goals for yourself
Having goals will automatically lead you to pursue something. It will remove negative thoughts and you would not be having “a devil’s mind”! What I mean to say here, an idle mind is a devil’s workshop and you will naturally be busy and find various ways to achieve it. Having goals is always beneficial because it gives your mind some direction.
3. Have your armor on
It is essential to always have your guard on. Try and be as confident as possible. An optimistic person seems a confident person. Therefore, confidence is key. Half our battle is won if you are confident.
4. Enjoy the smaller pleasures
Life is all about the little – little pleasures. Take each day as it comes. Enjoy the little things that bring joy. Take out time to just see the birds chirping or the dog playing in the park, dance a little with your grand children or just in the rain! Have a sip of tea and make yourself cozy.
5. Energy follows thought
Positive energy leads to positive action. Last week in my own particular experience, I felt that if I believe and say something good, it always happens. So as a principle, I always say to speak only the good things. 🙂
Love & Happiness,